Client Journal: Superior/Worthless Pattern

Client L: I have been writing about all the incidents in which I felt inferior to men. There are some with my dad and younger brother, then also with guys I date. I also noticed the superior pattern…with some guys (the nice ones), I felt superior to them or I was totally in control and bossy! If they were not popular or cute, but I liked them, I would still feel better than them for some reason? Why would I do that? Where does that superior come from when I felt so inferior? Was it to try to compensate for the worthless feelings?

Marta: The superior is always about the worthless, but what breaks the pattern are feelings and expression. Inside of the pattern is always a wound. See what wounds and feelings are in this pattern.